A Reader Lives a Thousand Lives

A Reader Lives a Thousand Lives

In the UK, it has been claimed that one in five adults struggle to read and write – that’s 8 million adults who are deemed functionally illiterate with an apparent reading score below level 2  (a report by the Sutton Trust 2016). Worse still, that’s 8 million adults who can’t read or enjoy my blog! Something must be done!

As a child I was a voracious reader, greedily absorbing anything and everything I could get my hands on. My mum regularly read to me when I was little – although she herself is the first to admit that she is not naturally a keen reader.

Computers and mobile phones were not the norm then, and although I spent quite a bit of time on my Nintendo (!), reading was my main hobby.

At school reading was highly encouraged and most of my school classmates – girls and boys – seemed to enjoy ‘book time’. It wasn’t until I started working in the film industry that I came across people who happily boasted that they had NEVER read a book in their life. Well I was shocked. How can someone in this day and age, go through their school years and into adulthood, without ever having read one single book?!

Many of those I met who seemingly hated books so much claimed that they found books ‘boring’, that reading was for ‘geeks’ or that they just couldn’t concentrate on one thing for too long. While these excuses perhaps masked deeper problems and learning difficulties, no-one actually admitted that they simply struggled to read or hadn’t had the privilege of being taught properly.

Obviously when we are good at something, we tend to enjoy it. I always struggled with maths at school (I blame a ‘mental block’ brought on by my fear of a very early school teacher) and while in the end, I still managed to do fairly well in exams (which suggested that I wasn’t really THAT bad at numbers), the declaration I often made that I HATED maths most definitely was born out of my early mathematical struggles. As I became less fearful of Pythagoras’ theory, I found that secretly, and only on rare occasions, I quite enjoyed solving number puzzles.

Having never read a book in your life is certainly not something to be proud of, neither is it something to be embarrassed or ashamed about if you have struggled with literacy your whole life.

Sufferers of dyslexia have often been met with indifference and even ignorance by the education authorities. This is still an ongoing problem today and although thankfully educational support has grown, awareness still needs to be raised. In fact, a number of successful writers such as F. Scott Fitzgerald (The Great Gatsby), Agatha Christie (Poirot) and George Bernard Shaw (Pygmalion) suffered from dyslexia.

Some of my relatives (by marriage!) haven’t read a single book in their lives and can’t understand why I would choose to curl up with a good novel, rather than watch reality TV. Besides from this being such a narrow-minded view, it is also highly dangerous – for our physical well being as well as our mental stability and ability to think for ourselves.

Keeping your brain active and staying mentally stimulated can slow the progress of diseases such as dementia;  reading improves your memory, focus and concentration and can provide you with stronger analytical skills (Agatha Christie should be able to help you!).

Stress levels can also be reduced through reading. If I watch TV before bed, I sometimes feel quite agitated – the noise of the TV and the bright visuals causes me stress – even if I am not aware of it, whereas quietly reading a good book (no matter how thrilling it is) helps me to relax. A well-written novel can transport you to other realms, while an engaging article will distract you and keep you in the present moment, letting tensions drain away and allowing you to relax.

Reading a wide range of books, newspapers, magazines etc helps to expand your vocabulary and adds to your general knowledge. It may also help to increase tolerance and understanding of others and create an ability to see ‘outside the box’. While my general views on life have of course been influenced by my up-bringing and what I have learnt at school and university,  I have also developed my ideas and opinions through reading other ideas and opinions. Watching LOVE ISLAND on a daily basis and playing Super Mario 24/7 will not add anything to your worldly knowledge.

(Hang on, I’ve got a TEXT!)

Everyone should at least have the opportunity to find enjoyment in the written word. Reading is a luxury we should all have the privilege of enjoying. Don’t suffer in silence.

If you or anyone you know is struggling to read or write and needs support, help is at hand through various teaching facilities and other educational support:




“A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.” – George R.R.Martin (A Dance with Dragons)  


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  1. 29th July 2019 / 6:48 am

    Well said, indeed. I’ve always enjoyed reading and weekly trips to the library as a child were outings to look forward to. My gran left school at thirteen to go ino domestic service. However, she was so well read we thought she knew everything! Happy reading. X

    • Ekaterina
      29th July 2019 / 7:16 am

      Thank you Yvonne!! Xo

  2. Elise McCune
    16th February 2014 / 9:22 am

    Hi Ekaterina,
    Thanks for your post regarding reading and learning to read. You have put the facts succinctly and with caring and compassion. It is thoughtful that you have given links to organisations who help people who are having trouble learning to read or because of circumstances have never had the opportunity given to many. Thanks for an informative post, I’m sure it will help many people.

    • EBotziou
      16th February 2014 / 11:25 am

      🙂 thanks Elise I really hope it helps.

  3. Elise McCune
    1st February 2014 / 10:54 pm

    Reblogged this on what elise wrote and commented:
    Ekaterina Botziou is a friend. This article is about people in the UK where she lives. Ekaterina is funny and wise and beautiful and comes from the heart.

  4. 1st February 2014 / 1:36 am

    A thoughtful post.

    I used to read quite a bit, and then pretty much got bullied out of the habit in my teens. It’s only in the last couple of years that I’ve made a concerted effort to read for leisure and relaxation. (Plus friends I’ve made through book blogs have stretched my reading comfort zones. If you’d told me that I would read books like “The Great Gatsby”, Young Adult fiction and, even, romantic fiction, I would have looked at you with a degree of scepticism).

    It’s good when I see blogger friends promote reading not only through their blogs, but also by handing books out for World Book Night. There needs to be more initiatives like this to not only get people reading, but keep them reading.

    • EBotziou
      2nd February 2014 / 9:35 am

      Well said!

  5. 29th January 2014 / 12:40 pm

    I agree with you Ekaterina that our early experiences influence our likes and dislikes. To help pass on my love of reading I help out one afternoon a week at my son’s school listening to is class read. Every single child aged 6-7 can now read appropriate books for their age. Some are so advanced they are on ‘Free’ readers and can choose any book. To me it’s one of the greatest gifts we can pass on to our children and snuggling up at edtime with my son and reading a book together is just such a lovely feeling. My husband unfortunately doesn’t share this passion precisely because he is dyslexic and wasn’t diagnosed until well into adulthood. For most of his school years he was labelled ‘stupid’ as a result.

    • EBotziou
      29th January 2014 / 12:43 pm

      Yes it’s such a shame that people who have had bad experiences as a child have been robbed of this passion. Let’s hope more youngsters can be diagnosed at an early age and get the help they need.

  6. 28th January 2014 / 2:36 am

    Great post Ms. Botziou – very thought provoking.
    I agree with you about the stigma that is occasionally attached with reading with regards to the ideology that only ‘losers’ potentially engage in such a pastime.
    In Australia, a friend of mine who is currently working with eight year old students explained that half the children in the class he teaches cannot read or write, and the other half are unable to understand the English vernacular. Although there are a number of plausible excuses to explain away why some people do not read, do you believe that potentially, on an international level, the education system is beginning to fail the adults of tomorrow by having a ‘near enough is good enough’ kind of attitude? Do you believe that internationally, teaching courses at universities are becoming increasingly shorter and the teachers of tomorrow have less of a knowledge base than those who taught the previous generations of humanity? Do you think that perhaps the human race is genetically becoming intellectually inferior to previous generations, and perhaps soon a pandemic will arise where millions of people are indoctrinated into finding reading to be an incredibly challenging arena? Just a few thoughts Ma’am.
    Again, a very well written and insightful post.

    • EBotziou
      28th January 2014 / 9:08 am

      Thank you for your comments totaloverdose – I think that in the UK especially, there is such a focus on ‘passing exams’, that students are sometimes taught in more of a robotic fashion, and are simply taught to ‘tick the correct boxes’ rather than form opinions of their own through understanding of the written word. In fact, I used to be regularly marked down in my English classes for being ‘too flowery’ and not coming up with the expected ‘bullet point’ answers.

      Also teachers themselves are under a lot more pressure to perform and I know some who have been criticised for their individual teaching style and for not following the correct, regimented teaching criteria. Of course this is not so for every school, and some are striving to put more emphasis on the enjoyment of learning and the importance of tolerance and mutual respect within society.

      I sincerely hope that such a pandemic as you have suggested will not arise, but quite frankly, in today’s nanny-state nothing would surprise me.

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