My Big Fat Greek Family Part 2: The Mama

My Big Fat Greek Family Part 2: The Mama

Who must know the way to make a proper home,
A quiet home, a Grecian home?
Who must raise the family and run the home,
So Baba’s free to eat and play Tavli?

The Mama! The Mama! Tradition!

If you hadn’t guessed those were the lyrics (albeit slightlly altered) to the song Tradition! from Fiddler on the Roof. I thought they were quite fitting to introduce MY MAMA: Suzannah Botziou.

In Greek culture, the man may be the head of the house, but the woman is the neck and she can turn the head any way she wants. Unfortunately for my mother, this is not a term she was familiar with in the early days when her young, innocent self met the full Spartan force of my untamed wild father.

My mother was born in London, the eldest of two girls. She inherited a mixed lineage as my glamorous grandmother was of Irish and French descent, while my no-nonsense grandfather is of Russian, Polish and apparently Royal descent (I am still investigating this claim).

Brought up on a solid diet of academia, music and ballet, the family moved to Leigh-on-Sea when my mother was eight and both girls continued with their ballet. A talented musical theatre child my mother later went on to study at the Royal Academy.

As a young ballet student

As a young ballet student

Upon graduating, she accepted a job offer to teach ballet in Greece. Having always had an affinity with the country, she felt drawn to the place and turned down offers to work in Italy and Spain in favour of the Spartan lands. On the third day of her stay she met my father, and that was the end of her life as she knew it.

While living in Greece, she danced with the Nafsika Ballet Company and took the principal role in many of their productions. After moving to England, my mother started her own fitness classes, and continues to teach ballet at local and London schools.

Scores of students, and many plie’s later, Suzannah Botziou is known throughout the ballet land.

A brilliant multi-tasker, she often choreographs many of her ballet dances while silmutaneously pirouetting round the kitchen indulging in her other great passion: cooking.

My mother’s culinary skills are famed throughout Leigh-on-Sea and requests for her Greek dishes (try one here) and delicious chocolate desserts (try another one here) are abundant.

As graceful as a swan but as mad as a hatter, charming and full of warmth with a selflessness that is beyond comparison – she once travelled for miles to buy my father a particular chocolate that he had mentioned he liked when they were first dating – his grateful response was “Why you only buy one?”.

My mother is one of a kind, the truest gem in a packet of midget gems (her favourite sweets) that you will ever find.


If you are looking for a dance tutor (from children to adults – private and group classes) check out my mum’s website


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  1. 6th March 2016 / 9:50 am

    What a beautiful woman and your dad is such a handsome man no wonder all your family are blessed with such beauty.
    And from what I have read on your blog you are all beautiful on the inside. I love the photos of your mother!

    • Ekaterina
      6th March 2016 / 3:13 pm

      Thank you for your lovely comment Elise! I like to think that I’ve brought them up well 🙂

  2. 6th March 2016 / 8:02 am

    What great photos and what a fabulously cool Mama. No wonder you are going places too 🙂

    • Ekaterina
      6th March 2016 / 8:05 am

      Thank you Stephen hope you are ok today 🙂

  3. 30th April 2013 / 8:20 am

    wonderful read! your mom is as pretty now as then… really enjoyed the touch of admiration of yours in your words for her. your looks are very much like hers and so is the grace!

    • EBotziou
      30th April 2013 / 8:22 am

      Thanks Soumya! Yes I show a lot of grace when I trip down the stairs haha!

  4. 29th April 2013 / 7:24 pm

    Your mom is beautiful. That is really cool that ballet took her to Greece!

  5. 29th April 2013 / 4:42 pm

    A truly traditional family, with arts as the sweetest of expressions – grace, music, dance, poise, love and security as the foundation. You are indeed, very, very, blessed. Reading this brought me such a reminder of these impeccable values. Warmest, JCD

    • EBotziou
      29th April 2013 / 4:46 pm

      🙂 now I have to do the Greek spitting to protect the blessings! Ptou ptou!

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